@Momentrabbit one advantage of living in the church is that you won't have rowdy immortals mucking up the place with their swordfights. it's three times a week around here. i'm like "go have your little head-choppy lightning battles somewhere else" but do they listen to me? phaugh.
(don't know what level of levity-appreciation you're currently at but we are all pulling for you, this is an awfully tough thing you're going through and i hope it all turns out well)